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August 19, 2004

I found The Dress

Yes, ladies and gents, I have found my wedding dress. It is a beautiful Jessica McClintock ivory satin gown, A-line, laced cap sleeves, and detailed beading on the bust. It's perfect. And it's only $285. No, I'm not kidding you. It's simply amazing that something that gorgeous is that affordable.

For a more detailed overall story of my hunt for the dress, you should read my entry over at the SF Metblog. However, I shall copy & paste some of it here (With some editorial changes to fit my blog).

I've been looking around various bridal and wedding sites for quite awhile now, trying to find a local bridal salon/boutique that wouldn't bust my budget. There are several out there in the Bay Area, but I had to limit myself to the city as I don't have a car to travel elsewhere.

I started out with Grace Couture Bridal Collections. I had noticed on their website that they were having a sample sale for 50% to 75% off all gowns. It sounded like a deal. So I grabbed the #1 California down to Locust Street, hiked up the small hill, and found that there were quite a few brides-to-be ahead of me. The sales ladies seemed busy tending to them, and sort of left me on my own to filter through the remaining samples. I felt rather lost in the small store, and those beautiful dresses seemed intimidating and overwhelming. The prices of the dresses were shocking. Sure the sale was 50% to 75% off, but the original retail prices of the gowns were anywhere between $3,000 to $5,000 -- even if you took 75% off the tag, it would still be astronomical. I decided to select a few anyway, which were then placed in a holding area as I waited my turn. It was 3 p.m. by then, and there were still a couple of ladies ahead of me. It then dawned on me that I probably wouldn't have time to really try on the gowns anyway, as the store closes at 4 p.m. The sales lady noticed that too, and politely saw me out. She asked me to come back the next day at 10 a.m. when the store wasn't as busy. Scared off by the prices and the borderline pretentiousness of the whole experience, I didn't (If you still want to take advantage of the 50% sale though, you only have until this Saturday before the sale ends).

Instead, I made an appointment at Just Engaged Bridal Salon. I saw the ad on Citysearch, and I read the customer testimonials. It seemed quite good, I thought. The salon's website boasts that all of their dresses are under $1,600, with a majority of them under $1,000. That definitely sounded more like my kind of store than the one before. Encouraged by the pretty gowns on their website, I decided to make the appointment as soon as possible, which happened to be earlier today.

It was more of a hassle getting there than to Grace Couture, as the Just Engaged salon was clear across town in the SoMa/Potrero Hill district. Also, as I climbed up the steep Utah Street hill, the out-of-the-way location made me wonder about whether this was the right place. But all my doubts were cleared as soon as I entered the store. Deb DeFanti, the owner of the salon, greeted me personally. She was the only person there, and she guided me through everything. She gave me the rundown on the prices and the gowns, which were separated into the formal and less-formal. She told me upfront that there would probably be an additional $100 or so for alteration costs, and that they don't do them in-house (However, they do have a relationship with a particular seamstress, and they usually recommend her for alterations). She then said I was to pick out any dress I wanted, and she would personally assist in dressing me up.

And that's exactly what happened. I picked out several dresses, and she recommended a few. After I changed into my undergarments, she then became my personal dressing assistant -- she helped to place the dress on for me, made a few necessary adjustments on-the-go, gave honest opinions, and even took several digital snapshots of of me in the dresses (I had brought along a digital camera to help me make my decision). She put me completely at ease, and was very friendly and helpful. After trying on half a dozen dresses, I finally decided on three I liked best. Of those three, we narrowed it down even further by trying and retrying the dresses and comparing the digital photos.

In the end, I had picked the one. Even with alterations, it would only cost around $390 (Aside: As it turns out, the seamstress for the alterations lives just a couple blocks from me!). The dress is lovely. And I wouldn't have ever found it had it not been for the gracious help of Deb DeFanti. For any of you in San Francisco who are looking for a low-cost high-quality solution for your wedding gown needs, Just Engaged Bridal Salon is the place for you. I can't recommend it enough.

For the curious, here's what the dress looks like (Page doesn't work with Mozilla FireFox though. Er, I guess it does work with Firefox after all).

Posted by Nicole at August 19, 2004 07:38 PM

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Well, even though I have been in and/or attended up to 7 weddings in the past 12 months or so, I have to ask...

Is $390 cheap for a dress?

I just don't know these things.

Posted by: Nala at August 20, 2004 04:52 AM

Considering the couture dresses I mentioned were around $3,000 a piece, I'd say $390 is damn cheap. Without alterations, it would've been $285, as I said.

Posted by: Nicole Lee at August 20, 2004 05:17 AM

CONGRATULATIONS!

Man, i am so not ready for marriage. I immediately thought — $390?! If she was my fiancee, she could have bought an new iPod and come to the wedding in a dress from the Gap.

Posted by: jack at August 20, 2004 09:42 AM

That dress is so pretty! I can see myself wearing something along those lines someday. I know some people aren't big fans of Jessica McClintock dresses, but I've definitely found ones that I like (I had one when I went to prom way back when). Congrats on getting the dress finding done with!

Posted by: Nicole at August 20, 2004 11:55 AM

Hey, just got here using STUMBLE, saw your entry about the wedding dress. My fiance and I are getting married in October and know how exciting it is. A little frustrating at times but I cant wait. She found her dress, she has planned the whole thing and she STILL WANTS TO DO IT :) hehe
Best o Luck to You!

Posted by: The KGB at August 21, 2004 08:09 AM

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