Paper Heart

Paper Heart poster

Paper Heart movie poster

Charlyne Yi is the girl I think I am. Quiet, introverted, awkward, yet funny. Michael Cera is the kind of guy I would be interested in. Quiet, introverted, awkward, yet funny.

This is why Paper Heart, the half-real half-fake movie created by Yi and director Nick Jasenovec, intrigued me. The movie’s premise starts out with Yi traveling across the country, asking people what love is. The interviews are real. Then it segues into Yi meeting Cera at a party, where they show signs of liking each other. This part is presumably fake. Which, in the end, doesn’t really matter. Their love, pretend or not, is just as interesting and charming as the real stories we hear about in the rest of the movie.

This is why: Their relationship doesn’t have the kind of lightning bolts and passionate heavy breathing that we expect from romantic comedies. They’re low-key and quite humdrum. They go out on dates, walk on the beach, share quirky moments, and write silly songs. There’s no real drama (except for the very end, but that’s a bit of a spoiler). Their relationship, whether it’s real or not, is actually very close to reality. Relationships aren’t always exciting and romantic. Relationships can be kind of uneventful and quiet most of the time. But that doesn’t mean love isn’t there. Love doesn’t need lightning bolts and car chases and the running across a meadow. Love can just be.

As Yi and Jasenovec take us through multiple tales of love, including Yi’s own journey from not believing in love to her relationship with Cera, we learn that everyone has a different definition of love. And that they’re all valid, real or not.

MaxFunCon 2009

MaxFunCon 2009
John Hodgman plays his ukulele in his MaxFunCon keynote address
Photo by Nicole Lee (More photos here)

When I said I was going to MaxFunCon last week, many people did not know what I meant. Even after I pasted the link, or after I tried describing it, I was met mostly with incredulity and laughter. I don’t blame them. It’s hard to comprehend how something like this can even happen. Matt, Adam, and Katie probably explained it better than I can, but here goes anyway.

Perhaps some background is in order. Jesse Thorn is a professional podcaster and public radio broadcaster who has somehow turned his college radio show into an audio podcast heard and loved the world over. The show that started it all was and is The Sound of Young America, which specializes in in-depth interviews with pop culture icons (ie. Brian Michael Bendis, Jeffrey Tambor, Neil Gaiman, Scott McCloud, etc.), many with a rather nerdy or comedic bent. TSOYA, as it’s called, has since been syndicated on PRI (Public Radio International) and is broadcasted on select public radio stations across the world. Since then, he’s produced many more podcasts under the Maximum Fun umbrella, like Jordan, Jesse, Go!, a light-hearted podcast co-hosted with his long-time buddy Jordan Morris, and The Kasper Hauser Podcast, a comedy podcast starring the members of Kasper Hauser, the San Franciscan comedy sketch group. All his podcasts are recorded and produced in his modest Los Angeles apartment.

Some time last year, Jesse had the idea of creating a convention called MaxFunCon. Not only would the conference bring together fans of his podcasts, but he also planned to invite his comedian and performer friends as entertainment. They include the You Look Nice Today crew (whom I consider friends), comedy rock duo Hard N’ Phirm, nerd rockstar Jonathan Coulton, and none other than the deranged millionaire himself, John Hodgman. When I heard this list of performers, I threw down my money faster than you could say “I’m a PC.”

And what did that money buy me? Three days and two nights in a mountain cabin, all meals included. The weekend’s itinerary included activity sessions like cooking, crafting, hiking, and learning the ins and outs of improv comedy. We were also treated to a creativity seminar by the super-inspiring Merlin Mann and a humorous slideshow by Improv Everywhere‘s Charlie Todd. If that wasn’t enough, we also saw comedians Jimmy Pardo, Tig Notarro, the aforementioned Hard N’ Phirm, and Maria Bamford send us all into fits of laughter as we sat shivering in an open-air amphitheater. Add in the late-night s’mores by the fire pit, John Hodgman passing around Crystalhead vodka and Jeppson’s Malort for us to sip right out of the bottle, meeting old friends and making new ones, and it was truly the most magical weekend I’ve had in years.

There was one key ingredient in this weekend of awesome: The incredibly nice people that Jesse somehow managed to attract to his fold. Maybe it’s just the inherent nature of people who listen to nerd comedy podcasts; that we’re all just really nice and easy-going. Or maybe it was the chilly mountain air, or that there were only 150 of us, or that the presenters were guests enjoying the conference just like the rest of us, or the fact that we had to brave thick debilitating fog to get to where we were. It was a treat, and I will not hesitate to do this again.

Sign me up for MaxFunCon 2010.

Watching the Watchmen: My totally nit-picky review of the movie vs. the book

WatchmenI just watched the Watchmen last night on the big IMAX theatre at the Metreon in San Francisco. I am overall pleased with the movie, but as a fan of the comic book, I have to say that there are some things that didn’t sit right with me. Oh, and from this point forward, there’ll be a lot of spoilers, so don’t read on if you don’t want to know anything.
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Hotel Tomo

Brandon and I spent Valentine’s Day weekend at Hotel Tomo, a boutique/budget hotel in Japantown in San Francisco. It is owned by Best Western, but it is definitely not a typical Best Western hotel. There are murals of Japanese pop art everywhere, the lobby has a vending machine of Giant Robot t-shirts, and each hotel room has a Fatboy beanbag plus a game controller.

As you can tell from the few camera phone photos I took, the hotel room has a very modern yet homey sensibility. I love the yellow bedspread, the green table, the Ikea furniture, and the cool Do Not Disturb card. There weren’t a lot of amenities and the bathroom is pretty small, but everything was clean and the bed was comfortable, and that’s all I really want from a hotel room. There’s also free Internet, but I didn’t bring my laptop. As for the rest of the hotel, almost every surface (doors, walls) was painted in vibrant colors. The people who work in the hotel are also really friendly and helpful.

It was around $129 a night for a Deluxe King bedroom, which isn’t too bad considering it’s in San Francisco. Of course, seeing as it’s in the heart of Japantown, we were close to a lot of restaurants. Brandon and I went to Izumiya for the first time, and only waited around 10 or so minutes for a table (On Valentine’s no less). We both had okonomi-yaki, a Japanese pancake made with flour, vegetables, and eggs, plus your choice of meat or vegetable. The restaurant is quite small and crowded but we could still hear each other and carry a conversation. We also spent a lot of time walking around the Japantown mall, checking out Kinokuniya, and buying snacks from the Nijiya market.

It’s funny, but even though I’ve been to Japantown before, it’s a whole other thing to actually feel like you’re living there, even for a day. I felt transported. And the cool hotel helped.

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Public relations ballyhoo

As a journalist with a keen and intense specialization on all things gadget-related, I have constant communication with people who call public relations their life’s calling (although to be honest most of them are just Journalism graduates who got sick of the poor pay). In any case, I like to think I have a healthy relationship with the PR people. I call them up to get information, they send me products to review, they get publicity (even if it’s bad), I send them the stuff back, and everyone’s all hunky dory in happy gadget wonder fairy land. However, I also have a lot of random PR people emailing me press releases and stuff that aren’t remotely related to my field, which I tend to skip by, but sometimes I humor them and I read them and sometimes I’m even so nice as to reply to them. It depends.

But sometimes.. just sometimes.. I come across a PR email that’s so inane, and ridiculous, and.. well.. just DUMB, that I can’t believe someone actually took their time to write it. Here’s one that I received recently, and I’ll leave it up to you to decide if I’m just being oversensitive here:

Dear Nicole,

[Insert introduction of said person plus the company he or she represents. It is a public relations and media firm specializing in technology. They have lots of cool clients.]

You have been in our database for some time now, listed as a writer for the CNET.com. That said, and to be entirely honest, we are not aware of your areas of interest. (Emphasis mine).

In better streamlining our communications with you, it would be great to understand your interest areas. That way we will ensure our communications with you are both targeted and appropriate.

Thanks for your help,
[Insert name of PR person]

So wait. They have me in their database (How?) and then they email me to ask me my areas of interest… Wow. How lazy can they be? Is this standard practice, to email journalists to ask them what their “areas of interests” are? Haven’t they ever heard of, oh I don’t know, web search? Maybe they could bother going to CNET.com and look for my name? Maybe they shouldn’t just chuck any ol journalists’ name into their “database” without appropriate information? What is this bullshit?

Well kudos to you, public relations person, for being honest. For that, I salute you. But.. boy, next time, do a little research instead of sending off the email, huh?

PS. Also, “the” CNET.com? That is totally a form letter. Boy they ARE lazy.